Sunday, June 24, 2012



 I have started taking hot yoga, and in my last practice the instructor was talking about clearing your mind and silencing  the noise.  So I thought I would share this excerpt for Chapter 4 of my NEW book  Permission to Succeed: the only person who needs to give it is you 

Silence the Whispers

My mother was always the quite supportive one in the house. She didn’t speak very loudly, she deferred to my dad to come and clean up the mess.

However, if mom had to swing the wood she could.

She always had a way of reaching me in my “moments” and effectively made her points. 

For example, when I went off to college with a newly repaired leg (after a severe injury and subsequent surgery), I didn’t know how much of a struggle it would be to get back out on the court to play. 

Some said I would not be the same, some said I would be a better player, and even others just said stupid stuff like, “Why are you even trying to play again at all?”

When the time came for me to start playing, I was a little shaky, so I called my mother.

I lamented, “I am not sure I can play again, I’m not sure if I will be good enough to play in college ever again.” 

My mother, in her calming way simply said…

You need to silence the whispers.

So what are the “whispers”? They are the thoughts of doubt that creep into your mind when you are face with obstacles you are not sure you can overcome, even though you have the training and the desire to succeed… but you are still waiting for others to say it is “ok”.

How about you, are you sitting here reading this and thinking about an opportunity that you need to try or concept that you need to develop and just when you start to get to the good part, the actual starting of the project, you stop?

Is it because you hear the whispers questioning everything thing you do?  You need to acknowledge them for what they are, deal with them, SILENCE THEM and press on.  

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